Looking for Love on Dating Sites

Looking for love on dating sites might be easy and convenient but just because it is easy does not mean daters should not take precautions and research the person they have met before meeting them in person.

Just because you have met somebody through a dating site does not mean they are legitimate or telling the truth about themselves and their intentions” Kim Tuffin from the trusted site FidelityCheckOnline.com said today. “You’ve just have to take precautions and be careful as you would in any other dating situation.

The good thing about dating sites is that they give you ability to get to know somebody anonymously. To begin with you don't have to give out any personal details; you should your name, your phone number home and business address secret and private.

When and if you reach the point where you're you feel comfortable giving up that anonymity and decide to actually meet the person then you should still do so with caution.

As a rule its always good practice, that when you meet for the first time, take appropriate precautions for example always meet in a public place and always remember just because you have met in person does not mean you have to immediately lay your whole life details out on a plate.

You can still talk in generalities, for example if your date asks you where you live, give a general area rather than a complete address.

Though the internet and dating sites have become a popular way of finding love, it also creates plenty of opportunities for deception so initially always be on your guard. Dating sites almost always feature safety tips, but they are nearly always located in the small print of the dating site, they would be far better prominently displayed.

If you like the person you have met on a dating site you might feel the need do some due diligence and checking before the actual date. This need may well increase if you think you want to meet the person again and the relationship could have a future. You should always take steps to protect yourself and your family.

Private investigators can help check out the person you have met, whether you're pursuing someone you met online or otherwise.

Thousands of people all over the world are finding themselves in the same situation, they have met somebody on a dating site but before they take the step of introducing them to their family they want to discreetly check them out to see if they could pose a danger.

Some hire a private investigator and some become clients of FidelityCheckOnline.com, the site will check to see if the person they have met is known to another one of its members.

The FidelityCheckOnline.com site may even be able to identify people if they have used fake names or personal details. It is inexpensive, confidential and very discreet.

Further details on safer Internet dating can be found on our site at:.FidelityCheckOnline.com

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Judge falls asleep during trial

UK England; Crown Court Judge 'falls asleep' during important child rape case

The case was abandoned after the judge fell asleep and will be re-listed for another trail as soon as possible.

26 July 2014 in Manchester England, a Crown Court judge is being investigated by the Conduct Investigations Office after he was accused of falling asleep in the middle of a child rape trial being held at
Manchester Crown Court, forcing it to be abandoned.

Barristers for the defence and prosecution complained Recorder (judge) Philip Cattan nodded off as an alleged victim was cross-examined by the defence barrister. As a result of the alleged incident the trial was abandoned will now have to be re-listed as the jury had to be dismissed.

The Judicial Conduct Investigations Office said it was investigating the allegation and that no comment could be made until their investigation was finished. Mr Cattan is a recorder, who is an experienced barrister who usually spends between 15 and 30 days a year sitting in as trial judge.

If the Conduct Investigations Office find Mr Cattan guilty of misconduct any disciplinary action will be decided by the Lord Chancellor and the Lord Chief Justice.

Former solicitor general Vera Baird commented that she was shocked and had "real concerns" over what is alleged to have happened.

Kim TUFFIN of FCOL said today, “if this allegation and what is reported is true it is the public who will have to pick up the cost of this abandoned trial and any forthcoming trial, the total bill could run into hundreds of thousands of pounds. Giving evidence in a case like this is traumatic enough for the victims without having to go through the whole thing again, it is a disgusting waste of time and money and hugely
disrespectful towards the victims”.

Police Chief accused of Creating False Profiles on Dating Sites

Wisconsin police chief who is accused of signing tea party boss up for gay dating sites to be charged

Wisconsin prosecutors intend to charge a Wisconsin police chief with a misdemeanor for allegedly registering a tea party leader onto gay dating, federal health care and pornography websites.

Monroe County District Attorney told of his plans to charge Town of Campbell Police Chief Tim Kelemen with unlawful use of a computerized communication system.

Kelemen would face up to $1,000 fine and 90 days in jail if convicted of the offense, but would still be permitted fulfill his duties of police chief. Only those with felony convictions or misdemeanor convictions related to domestic violence are excluded from being police officers.

Concerned that signs on on a local bridge were distracting drivers, Kelemen convinced the town board to pass a law banning signs, banners and flags on the bridge this angered tea party supporters. Kelemen and his attorney say that tea party leader Greg Luce retaliated by urging his supporters across the country to bombard the police department with harassing phone calls and threats.

Luce started receiving calls and emails from gay dating, healthcare and porn websites, La Crosse investigators tracked some of the internet activity to a computer at Kelemen's home and the Campbell town hall.

The police chief initially said he knew nothing about the fake profiles he had posted on websites but later acknowledged he had signed Luce up for them in revenge for harassing his police department. He said he reported the harassment to the department of Justice (DOJ) but that agency declined to help him.

The police chief is due to appear in court Thursday July 22nd 2014. Luce has filed a civil lawsuit in federal court, accusing Kelemen of stealing his identity and that the bridge ordinance violates his free-speech rights. That case is still pending.

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These Thai and Filipino dating sites are full of scammers, just after your money. Never send money to somebody you have never met no matter how serious they say the need is or how little it is. If you wang to give your money away give it to a local charity. This scammer may not even be the sex you think they are. It's a business for them, they probably have 20 or 30 fake profiles.

Take care enjoy yourself but don't fall in love with somebody you have never met in person and never send money.

http://www.fidelitycheckonline.com/dating-site-scams

Sponsor a Thai Bar Girl!

Are you sponsoring Your Thai Girl Friend! What is sponsoring, why do you want to sponsor her, and how much you should sponsor?

Men, visiting Thailand, the, ‘land of smiles’ enjoy the bars, hot weather and disco’s with their loud music and stunning hostesses. Visitors spending time in the presence of an (equally hot) young lady who constantly reminds them how handsome you are in exchange for their company and a few drinks can be quite intoxicating but remember, these girls are professionals, professionals in extracting every bit cash from the gullible walking ATM’S (there name for us), You and I.


After spending a few days, and nights! With the new love of their life the enamored holiday maker exchanges contact details, says goodbye and returns home to reality. His new "Thai Girl Friend” will want to keep in touch and will contact him every opportunity.

The conversations may soon turn to appeals for support and Thai bar girls seem to have the knack of crying at will. She may well ask you to send her cash for an emergency or for her family who apparently have a major problem on their farm in some far off part of Thailand.

Or she simply asks for money to support her so she no longer as to work in the bar as she doesn’t like going with the customers. If you decide to send her money each month, and it is likely to be as much as you can afford, you have become a sponsor and are now officially sponsoring your girlfriend.

People might label it as foolish! Why, they ask, you would want to send your hard earned money to someone you have only just met and have known for only a short period of time. Nobody is saying that all bar girls are intent on ripping you off but, the chance that you have found “the one” is very remote. The chances are she has another sponsors already or even multiple sponsors all sending her money and all thinking they are the only one in her life.

Speaking as an ex- sponsor I can see how sponsoring happens. They call the need to ‘rescue’ somebody living in what might be considered, by western standards, squalid and sad conditions as the ‘white knight’ syndrome. The truth, however, is often completely different. Many of the bar girls like their life, they like sitting around, chatting, eating spicy food and joking.

Having sex with strangers is a small price to pay for the comparative luxury of not working on the family farm in the blistering hot sun, day after day.... but I digress.

This blog is for sponsors everywhere, Thailand, India, Philippines, Bali, Turkey, Africa the West Indies. Everywhere westerners, men and women, holiday and end up sponsoring somebody they have met because they like them, or love them, or even feel sorry for them.

This blog is where sponsors can chat about fears and concerns, exchange views, or the cheapest ways of sending money abroad. Being a sponsor can be a lonely existence, people at home can’t understand why you send money to somebody you can only be with a few weeks a year. Sponsor’s can’t be sure their partners are being faithful, or if they are being unfaithful and in other relationships and if so are these people sending them money as well as them.

Is the relationship going anywhere are you throwing money away and being made to look stupid, is the relationship just a waste of time?

http://fidelitycheckonline.com/offers

The French and Infidelity

Infidelity most  French think it’s ok !

The French are the most forgiving nation in the world  when it comes to having affairs it was revealed in a recent study by the pew Research Centre in a study in 2013. The study was undertaken well before the present French President Francois Hollande was allegedly caught visiting his actress girlfriend Julie Gayet during his lunch break in Paris (he would pull up outside her flat on a motor scooter wearing a full face crash helmet). However the people in the US are not so forgiving and rank 28^th on the list just behind Ghana and Brazil.

The study researched people from 39 countries about attitudes towards extra marital affairs asking them the question "Do you personally believe that married people having an affair is morally acceptable, morally unacceptable or is not a moral issue?"

France was the most forgiving with only 47% saying it was morally unacceptable and a huge 77% (source French institute of Public Opinion) said the alleged affair was a private matter which meant only 23% thought the matter was a matter of public concern.

So how did the rest of the world compare to the French in the ‘ affairs are unacceptable stakes’ ? Germany 2^nd with 60%, Italy 65%, Spain 64% and South Africa 65%. See the entire list here.

Thailand Illegal Immigration Concerns

Thai Immigration Police  Crackdown in North-East Thailand

Immigration Police in North East Thailand have announced the begining of an initiative on foreigners entering Thailand posing as tourists, who they suspect working illegally in the Kingdom, a  seminar for immigration officers was told on Monday.in Khon Kaen.

This latest crackdown is to also going to target foreigners on border runs and those who have entered and re-entered Thailand a number of times using tourist visas over a prolonged period of time.

After an wide ranging and thorough investigation into foreign visitors the Immigration Department Thailand has found repeated patterns of immigration irregularities, with some foreign nationals re-entering the country up to 60 times, but each only for a duration of between 15 and 30 days.

Further investigations revealed that out of those people who regularly re-entered Thailand, very large numbers came from neighboring countries such as Vietnam, Cambodia,Laos and Myanmar, with many working in restaurants, factories, and construction sites and the fishing industry

Immigration Police have now stepped up their operations all across all the twenty provinces in the northeast of Thailand and in particular in the areas of Mukdahan, Nong Khai Ubon and Ratchathani all  of which are widely used by people re-entering Thailand on border runs.

Officers have also been instructed to  closely scrutinise  each individual, regardless of what country they come from, in deciding whether to deny them entry to the kingdom.

40,000 foreigners blacklisted

High tech identity scanning machines will be installed at entry points throughout North Thailand and electronic processing will also be brought in nationwide. All data will then be cross-referenced with the central immigration database which a wealth of detailed information on the 40,000 foreigners who are presently blacklisted from entering Thailand.

Checkpoint data will also be used to help combat people suspected of smuggling or transportation of illegal goods into Thailand, as well as in assisting in national security issues.

Immigration officers were warned of the harsh penalties they can expect to face should they be found to be illegally involved in any corrupt practices with regards to assisting, aiding or abetting foreigners who enter Thailand illegally.