Are Foreign Dating Sites a Scam

If you are using Thai, Filipino, Russian or Ukrainian dating sites, are you being set up for a scam?

Specialist detectives could tell you if the person you have met online has other boyfriends for as
little as $29.99.

Dating sites are becoming an increasingly common way for men from the west to meet girls from Thailand, Philippines, Russia or the Ukraine. But there are some essential things to remember when using dating sites or social media to meet girls, particularly Russian girls,

Ukraine girls or girls from the Far East:

• Some of these dating sites are fake – they have been set up as genuine dating websites but in reality are only there to obtain innocent people’s identity and bank account details. So, watch out as you complete your dating site profile and pay your subscription, the information could all be being downloaded by organised criminals for the purpose of fraud or identity theft. Only use reputable sites with a history of providing good security and service.

• Some of the dating or social media site profiles you see will defiantly be fake (you may not even be chatting or corresponding with a real girl). The profile may have been posted to lure men into a trap in an attempt to defraud them by a fictitious ‘hard luck’ story or, to keep subscribers staying on the site and persuaded into buying extra credits, or spending money to upgrade their membership.

• Some of the girls posting on dating site masquerade as someone they are not; from the outset their aim is to financially or sexually exploit other site users or their families.

• If you decide to travel to meet someone you have encountered you have only met online carries personal safety risks only do so with extreme caution.

• Please note that scammers are increasing using social media to entrap and scam victims. Using social media is no safer than using dating sites.

• Many of the girls are using the same dating site profile to meet other men as well as you, you may be one of many men being ‘juggled’ and being told that ‘ You are the only one’ and ‘there is nobody else my love’.

How can you help protect yourself when using dating sites or social media when meeting people?

• Choose your dating site or social media forum carefully (look for an established site).

• Protect your privacy, never disclose confidential, personal information or intimate photographs – look at our general advice about safe internet surfing.

• Even if you are feeling lonely or vulnerable don’t let yourself get emotionally drawn into an online relationship and leave yourself susceptible to financial exploitation – the person you have met may not be who they say they are and they may not even actually exist. Although scammers can sometimes take months or years grooming their victims before asking for money they frequently claim to have fallen in love with their victims in a matter of weeks. Beware of suspiciously quick utterances of undying love... they are the sure warning signs of a scammer.

• Note; scammers tell their potential victims they have fallen in love quickly because they don’t want to waste valuable time on somebody who is not responsive or potentially receptive to being scammed. If a victim responds positively, by telling them they love them back, they [the scammer] are then able to move onto the next stage (a request for money). If a person does not respond positively they just move onto their next victim.

Be very careful if you do decide to travel to the Far East Russia or the Ukraine meet somebody you have met on a dating site in person. Follow good safety advice when considering how to travel, where to stay, where to meet, having fun and socialising, including advice about how to protect yourself if you’re meeting someone in person who you’ve connected with online.

Long Distance Love Affairs

Do you have a girlfriend or boyfriend living abroad? Are you spending time apart and want to check they are being faithful and true when you are not together. 

Well you are not alone; there are thousands of people just like you all over the world. Do you have doubts your partners their fidelity or do you want to check that you are the only one supporting them financially or emotionally?

Long distance relationships can be difficult and you may only have limited, valuable time to spend together. Absence and distance can cause doubts about faithfulness and trustworthiness and may cause unnecessary problems, insecurities and arguments within the relationship.

With a simple online discreet check of our database, we can help relieve your anxiety and concerns, or alert you to any emotional, physical danger or financial.

Our trained private investigators have years of experience dealing with cheating, infidelity and unfaithfulness. We have used the information and expertise gained to create an extensive, searchable worldwide data base, that can be used to help establish whether your partner is in a relationship with another of our clients.

The Fidelitycheckonline.com data base is totally unique and is the largest and most comprehensive online database of its kind; it is constantly being updated with new information and data.

All of the information is kept safe on our secure encrypted database. No information is passed to a third party without your authority.

Our trustworthy, trained, professional private investigators promise to deliver a fast, confidential and discrete search result service.  If a match is found and we discover your partner could be in a relationship with somebody else will put you in contact with any other boyfriends or girlfriends that your partner is in contact with.

We aim to give our clients the confidence to take their relationship to the next level, put their minds at ease, or confirm their suspicions. Our value for money service can potentially reduce or prevent long-term financial loss, stop you being a victim of fraud, dispel your doubts and reduce the chance of emotional deception and deceit.

Today everything is done online, now you can even check if your partner is being faithful. Check if you really are ‘the only one’ against our network of thousands of other like minded and cautious clients.

Registering a partner that you are in a Long Distance Relationship with and checking their fidelity with us really works and might just save you a lot of heartache.

What country has the most Adulterous Wives

Cheating Wives.. The world’s top10 list of unfaithful women

In a survey by the condom manufacturer Durex, on over 29,000 people from 36 different countries showed who were the most likely to commit infidelity and adultery.

Top 10 Most unfaithful married women in the world [by country]

1. Nigerian women:

62% of Nigerian women admitted they have been unfaithful.

2. Thai women:

59% of women living in Thailand admitted they had been unfaithful and had cheated on their husbands. It is claimed that many Thai husbands allow their wives to commit adultery.

3. British women:

A UNLV article on infidelity and extramarital affairs noted that Britain have unfaithfulness rates of 42%, The UK is said to experience a high rate of women cheating within relationships.

4. Malaysian women:

33% of Malaysians in general are known to cheat on their partners. 39% of the Malaysian women, in particular, are known to betray their marriage vows.

5. Russian women:

33% of Russian women admitted to cheating. Interestingly enough, the adulterer is not the one to blame in Russia. The finger points towards the person who kindles the affair. The Russians tend to blame the women for the affair (whoever started it) and that has been the tradition for 100s of years.

6. Singaporean women:

Durex also established that 19% of women in Singapore are known to be unfaithful.

7. French women:

Women in France are 16.3% likely to commit adultery. Men are 22% likely. A Huffington Post article believes that France makes adultery mandatory – 93% of the population is committing it.

8. American women:

61% of Americans believe that adultery should not be a crime.

9. Italian women:

14% of married women in Italy admitted to having an affair once during their married life. The judicial system in Italy has decriminalized adultery for married women. Women in Italy now can lie about having an affair to protect their honour.

10. Indian women:

Indian Women are also revealed to be adulterous. Adultery is considered as a crime in India and is placed under Chapter XX, which deals with offenses relating to the sacrament of marriage.

Interestingly no mention of the Scandinavians who are either very loyal or very discreet.

All in all, 50-65% of husbands and 40-55% of wives admitted to have have an affair before
they are 40.

How to check out a cheating wife?

Once a cheat always a cheat?

People who have cheated in relationships in the past are more likely to do so yet again, they will even cheat on the very person with whom they cheated with the first place.

If a person has cheated once they are far more likely cheat again, even on the new partner.

A team of researchers has observed certain common patterns in three different surveys about “mate poaching”, a term used to describe stealing another persons boyfriend, partner of husband.

The results of a survey found quotes;

 “we observed reliable evidence that individuals who were poached by their current romantic partners were less committed, less satisfied, and less invested in their relationships. They also paid more attention to romantic alternatives, perceived their alternatives to be of higher quality and engaged in higher rates of infidelity compared to non-poached participants.”

A man or woman who allows themselves to be “poached” by somebody else and have cheated on their ex-partner, will more often than not tend to think the grass will always be greener elsewhere.

The logic of the findings is that: if somebody is prepared to cast aside their self-respect and cheat on a partner in the past, why would they not be willing to do exactly the same again if tempted? In a similar study by the University of Denver the researchers found that people who have been unfaithful in the past are 3.5 times more likely to “do it again” by cheating with someone else, at the cost of their latest partner.

But, then, do we really need these studies to prove what many of us know and understand already, the expression ‘A leopard never changes its spots’ springs to mind. If a person was able to justify bad behavior in the past, it is likely, given a similar set of circumstances, they will be minded to do exactly the same again.

Hiring a Private Investigator in Thailand

How to find and hire a trustworthy Phuket, Phuket and Bangkok private investigators specializing in cheating Thai girlfriends

Trusted since 2013 FidelityCheckOnline.com functions differently than traditional private investigators in Thailand. Our agency serves as an alternative for men with girlfriends in Thailand and the far east who want to check and monitor if they are being faithful or have other secret boyfriends. Concerned clients use our database to register their girlfriend details.

Every 24 hours our computer software compares all of her data to discover if she has other secret boyfriends. It is simple, quick, confidential and inexpensive. Because we search on all a girlfriend’s details including social media and dates of birth we can even establish if she is meeting other guys using a different name.

It’s easy to register, completely confidential, inexpensive and the largest database of its kind in Thailand and the world.

Hiring a Private Detective in Thailand General Principals


All Phuket, Bangkok and Phuket Private Investigators, like private detectives all over the world, have to follow strict ethical standards. They need to protect the identity of their clients and conduct ethical, safe and thorough investigations.

Above all Thailand’s private investigators must protect the information they collect and ensure it is not lost, transferred or fall into the wrong hands.

Different countries have their own ways of ensuring that private investigators ensure that the information and data they collect is kept safe, in the UK private investigators are regulated by the Data protection Act and the Information Commissioners Office.

Selecting a private investigator in Thailand’s Phuket, Phuket or Bangkok

The same care should be taken selecting your Thai private detective as you would take if you were selecting a lawyer or doctor. Don’t pick a private investigator just because they have the biggest or expensive looking website, it means nothing.

Be warned there are many private detectives, all over the world who have no formal training or experience and have, in effect, just woken up one morning and decided to try being a private investigator. The investigator should be qualified, experienced and if possible a member of a trade association.

FidelityCheckOnline.com follows a strict code of ethics. Although we operate in almost every country, many of our investigations are conducted in Thailand, in particular Pattaya, Phuket and Bangkok our clients can be assured we follow the rules of the UK and the Association of British Investigators.

To perform all professional duties in accordance with the highest moral principles and never be guilty of conduct which will bring reproach upon the profession of the private investigator or the association of which it is a member.

• To verify the credentials of the clients and that they have lawful and moral reasons to instruct an investigation.

• To respect the privacy of clients and their lawful confidences

• To ensure that the services are adequately secure to protect privacy and guard against inadvertent disclosure of private information.

• To ensure that all employees and persons paid to assist in investigation adhere to this code of ethics and accept responsibility thereof

• To conduct all investigations within the bounds of legality, morality and professional ethics

• To respect the best interests of our clients by maintaining the highest standard of proficiency and reporting to our clients all the facts ascertained whether they are advantageous or detrimental, with nothing being withheld from the clients save by dictates of law

At all times FidelityCheckOnline.com treats information with which we are entrusted during the course of our private investigation business with respect and access or disclose it only for the purposes for which it is intended; attending to all instructions within the principles of the prevailing privacy legislation and in particular if controlling personal data to be so notified with the Information Commissioner of the UK.

A spokesperson for FidelityCheckOnline.com said today “we specialise in exposing unfaithful and cheating girlfriends and are proud that we have such high ethical standards. In all the time we have been conducting investigations we have never had our systems or data compromised and never disclosed the name of any of our clients. The identity of our clients is strictly confidential and our operation is very discreet”.

You can register your Thai girlfriend for as little as US1$ a day. The sites detectives will warn you if she is also in a relationship with another of its thousands of clients with girlfriends in Thailand.

Nigerian Romance Scams Online

Nigerian online romance scams: Australian victim manages to recover some of her money after police investigation

Police have helped a Perth woman recover some of her money after she sent a scammer hundreds of thousands of dollars in a Nigerian romance scam online according to a report from ABC Australia.

It is understood she has recovered about $100,000, which equates to about 40% of the money she sent to the overseas scammer. The woman is the first known Western Australia romance fraud victim to get any money back from an overseas scammer.

The victim (51) told a local radio that she started a relationship with a man she met on the internet calling himself Gary in 2013 on the online dating website RSVP.

Unknown to her the photo had been stolen off of the internet website and the scammers (from Nigeria) had created a fake profile for Gary. The scammers sent her messages of love and romance followed by requests for money for a business-related crisis.

The victim said "We developed a relationship online fairly rapidly, and soon he started requesting money and I sent those sums of money after about six weeks," she said.

"I was simply looking for companionship after my divorce and never thought there would be such cruel con artists looking to capitalize on loneliness”.

"When he was wanting me to send his money back via me, I realized there was something really wrong here and asked some questions, I ended up seeking advice from the police, who confirmed it was a scam."

Detectives said that they were working with Nigerian police authorities, who arrested a suspect and later charged him with obtaining money under false pretences. Australian police said the scammers often worked in syndicates and it was their fourth arrest working with the Nigerian police and that there was an ongoing good relationship between them.

Police said they had a breakthrough in the case when they found fingerprints on a document the Nigerian scammer sent to Jenny, which matched a person known to the Nigerian police.

Online Romance Scam victim feels 'lucky' and overjoyed!

The scam victim said she had already resigned herself to the fact that she would never see the money again and was overjoyed when the bank agreed to refund some of the money she sent to the conman. Now the victim can’t believe she fell for the scam.

FCOL anti romance scam expert said today “This lady has been very lucky to get money back. We can only restate our previous advice, never send money to somebody you have met on a dating or social media site and never met in person, more advice can be found on our blogs.

Typically, but not exclusively, romance scammers claim to their victims that they are westerners rather than Nigerian and working abroad as engineers or military personnel. Often when grooming their victims they will tell them very early in the relationship that they are in love with them and have met their ‘soul mate’.

If you register the person you have met on a dating site FCOL can tell you if they are in a relationship with another of our many clients and a potential romance scammer

Scammers target Christian Dating Sites

Popular Christian Dating Sites are being targeted by overseas scammers who see Christians as easy targets. 

Scammers are creating false profiles on Christian dating sites like CatholicDatingForFree.com and ChristianConection.co.uk meeting members and then asking for money or personal information that they then use to their financial gain.

Christian Connection Website

These scammers are usually based in Eastern Europe or West Africa, the information and photographs these scammers put on their Christian Dating site profile is usually stolen from other parts of the internet without the permission or knowledge of the victims.

Scammers sometimes target particular individuals on sites like Catholic Dating For Free and use
psychiatrists to produce profiles and conversations that will be most likely to put their victims at
ease and persuade them to send them the money or information they request.

Often the scammers create false emergencies to ask for money, some examples are as follows;

• Problems at the airport while trying to visit you.

• Money for airline tickets.

• Children in hospital and money needed for bills.

• If they claim they are running a business, money needed because of money flow problems.

The list is inexhaustible and new fake excuses are being invented every day to con you out of your money.

Scammers will often tell their potential victims that they ‘love them’ very early in the relationship,
this is in order that they can move the relationship on quickly so that they can ask for money to be
sent to them.

These scammers target Christian dating sites such as Catholic Dating for Free because Christians
believe in God, ‘Love’ and ‘Faith’. It is no coincidence; they think Catholics are an easy target.

Never send money to somebody you have met on the internet on sites like Catholic Dating for Free
and have never met in person. Catholic dating For Free is a great site for Catholics to meet for friendship and romance and please do not let this warning discourage you from joining but be aware the site and similar dating sites are being targeted by heartless scammers who might break your heart and steal your money.

There intent is to romance you ad then take your money when your defenses are down.

Read more about Internet Romance Scams at FidelityCheckOnline.com blog.