Bar Bill Padding in Angeles City - Philippines

Watch out for The Bar Bill Padding Scam!

Our operative in Angeles Philippines has identified some bill padding scams in Fields Avenue. A Swedish gentleman customer was beaten up by staff at a well known bar after he disputed the bar bill.

Photographs showed a badly beaten Swedish gentleman who’d been assaulted by  bouncer's for refusing to pay his bill. friends of  the Swedish guy said that he visited the club accompanied by a girl who was not employed by the bar. His drinks bill was given to him when he went to leave, and he was charged for lady drinks for her, even though she did not work there.

He refused to pay for the more expensive lady drinks, and insisted on the drink price for an ordinary customer. An argument developed and  he was allegedly attacked by two of the bar bouncers as well as the mamasan He was taken to a local hospital, badly injured.

This is not the first time that alleged  bill padding has happened at this particular bar. It is recommended that bar bills are checked regularly through the evening, if necessary after every purchase to ensure the bill is not padded. One customer speculated that these scams maybe run by the mamasan and bouncers and management may not be aware.

Always check bills and if necessary pay as you go rather than run up a tab, leave early if you think you are being scammed, go to another bar, there are plenty of them in Angeles City.

Bar Bill Padding is just one of a number of scams pulled on Tourists visiting Angeles City you can read more
scams on our blog at: http://fidelitycheckonline.com/blog 

Dementia Sufferes targeted by Internet Fraudsters

Fraudsters are targeting the most vulnerable people in society, "they need more protection" says  charity bosses.

The Alzheimer's Society estimates that 15% of people with dementia have been victims of frauds such as scam mail, mis-selling or cold calling.

Those figures equal 112,500 people, losing an average of £850 each.

It is also claimed that being a victim can cause a person's illness to become worst and may even ultimately result in their death.

Social isolation is blamed for the ease that some people suffering from debenture become easy victims,  "even though they realise what is happening to them they continue to pay or send money just to keep up some human contact" the City of London Police report said.

"Because of these con artists, my dad now finds it very difficult to trust people”

The society spoke to 104 carers and 47 people with dementia, as well professionals in the field, nursing professionals, social workers and focus groups.

The result of the research  indicated that 62% of carers claimed that the person they cared for had been approached in person by people on the doorstep and 70% had been contacted telephone cold callers.

A spokesman for the Alzimers Society said they are only scratching the surface of the known abuse of the vulnerable.

The charity is compiling a training programme including;

Urging families who have a dementure sufferer to discuss money management at an early stage of their illness and consider the option of a power of attorney and redirecting post to stop junk mail.

The police have set up special departments to deal with elderly abuse and victims of financial crime.

They are also appealing to the wider community and society to look out for their neighbours, friends and family.

If somebody thinks they, or someone anybody they know, may be a victim of these type of crimes involving scams or rogue trading, they should contact the police, council trading standards service or Crimestoppers call 0800 555 111 without delay.

These organizations should be adopting a pro active approach to intervention so call them if you suspect somebody else is a victim even if they ask you not to do so.

Is my Girlfriend Cheating on me!

Different kinds of unfaithfulness

Are there really different kinds of infidelity?

When people talk about unfaithfulness in relationships they would be wrong to assume that there is only one kind, physical unfaithfulness. There are different kinds, some more dangerous than others.

For example which of these two scenarios would you consider to be the most dangerous to your relationship.

1. Partner comes home from the company Christmas party and says they are very sorry, they got drunk and passionately kissed a work colleague on the lips under the mistletoe, they say they are sorry and it won't happen again.

2. Partner comes home from work and says that over the past months they have been spending more time with somebody they work with, they have been talking for hours on end about everything imaginable, they make them laugh and have the same sense of humour. Today, this other person told them that they loved your partner and your partner thinks they feel the same. Nothing physical has happened between them not even a kiss.

If you haven't guessed it scenario two is by far the most dangerous threat to your relationship.

Even though nothing physical has happened between your partner and this other person they have still been unfaithful to your relationship, still broken the rules, they have allowed themselves to become emotionally involved with somebody else.

They might say that they couldn't help themselves and the attraction was too strong, they couldn't fight it, but I don't completely buy it.

People make choices, they may only be small ones to begin with but they make them all the same, they chose to spend time alone with this other person they chose to share intimate thoughts and desires, they chose to cross the line between a work colleague (friend) and something more. They knew what they were doing but they went ahead and did it anyway.

I am not passing judgement, these things sometimes happen in life, if your partner has fallen in love with somebody else there is really not a lot you can do about it. The only approach you can really take is to tell them what you want and feel and say "What do you want to do about it"?

The way I see it is they either stay with you or they go, what should be avoided at all costs is some halfway house, where they stay with you but are in love with and still pursuing a relationship with this other person. That path will lead to humiliation, loss of self respect and dignity that there might be no way back from.

So in our opinion YES there are several kinds of unfaithfulness!

Physical Unfaithfulness.
The first is straight forward physical unfaithfulness. Your partner has a physical relationship with somebody else, that could mean full sex or some other kind of sexual intimacy somebody might engage in not but the full act of sexual intercourse.

Emotional Unfaithfulness.
This could mean that no (or very little), physical sexual intimacy has taken place but your partner is in love with somebody else. They are emotionally committed to that other person, they rely on them for emotional support and confide in them.

Relationship Unfaithfulness.
Two people are still together but one or both parties to the relationship are so unhappy that at every opportunity they can they undermine, disrespectful or hateful comments about their partner to others.

If you suspect your partner is being unfaithful to you, simply register them with Fidelity Check Online and let us check them out on our database. Our service is discreet and totally confidential you will be the only one to find out if they are cheating on you!

 

The Dangers of Falling for a Younger Women

This is a true real life horror story recently posted on the internet. This vulnerable man has been taken in by a cheating Filipino gold digger, much younger than himself. They have met online (probably a dating site where she has posted a fake profile) and he has fallen head over heels in love. He has helped her move to the USA and married her and has slowly alienated himself from his loving family, she has persuaded him to send her sister money for a house and now she now wants a divorce and is fabricating a story of violent behaviour to be granted all of his money and assets in the settlement. 

 

This is a familiar story to FidelityCheckOnline investigators who have come across situations like this in the past and will do again in the future. 

If this woman wins her divorce case and the judge believes her she will take assets from this man and his family that have been built up over a lifetime of hard work, it will mean she never has to work again. The outcome of this ill advised relationship was doomed from the very start and the sad outcome, obvious and predictable, it probably could have been avoided if his family had acted decisively from the beginning.

 

It sounds like, to their credit, this family is sticking together through this difficult and testing time but this is not always the case. Situations like this can tear families apart and cause irreparable damage to relationships. The decisions this stupid and naive man has made could result in him loosing his assets, income, savings, family and those he really loves could lose their inheritance.

All this problems could have  been avoided with a little investigation and forethought.  More and more frequently concerned families are turning to companies like FidelityCheckOnline for help. They are persuading their fathers, mothers or loved ones to registerer the people they met in person, on the internet, or dating sites and that they know little about. The information they are discovering about their behaviour and other boyfriends or girlfriends are persuading people that they should either not be in the relationship in the first place or should protect themselves and their families against emotional and financial fraud by gold diggers only out for money.

 

 

Is my Girlfriend Cheating on me!

How to Check if your Thai Girlfriend is Cheating on you!

How can I check if my Thai Girlfriend is cheating? I hear of so many girls in Thailand particularly those living in Pattaya, Bangkok and Phuket who are being unfaithful to their boyfriends!

“I have girlfriend who works in a bar in PATTAYA, I am sending her money so that she does not have to go with customers who visit the bar where she works. Lately she has not been answering her phone when I call her and last time I visited her she was wearing jewellery I had never seen before and riding a new motorbike!

I think she is cheating on me and has other boyfriends but I can’t prove it as I live thousands of miles away. I know Pattaya is full of temptations for a beautiful girl and other guys who visit the bar will be asking for sex, the whole situation is driving me crazy. I love her and want the relationship to go further but I don’t want to be made a fool of and if she is having sex with other guys don’t want to catch any nasty diseases. Can FidelityCheckOnline help me find out the truth before things go too far"?

What FidelityCheckOnline have to say in response to this guys question about the possiblity of this Thai Girlfriend cheating on him;

Our experience in investigating infidelity and unfaithfulness amongst bargirls would tend to indicate that your girlfriend could well be in a relationship with another man or men. The signs you write about (wearing expensive new jewellery and riding a new motorbike) are clear indications to us that she is getting extra money from somewhere.

If you are not sending it, somebody else is, the salary she gets from the bar will be very low and not nearly enough to afford such luxuries. The fact that she is not answering your telephone calls could mean that she is with somebody else and can’t answer or on the phone with another man.

You are not alone; many men, all over the world with girlfriends in Thailand and Pattaya are in exactly the same situation as you. Her other boyfriend(s) will be just like you, not knowing about the other men, puzzled as to where she is getting her money from and wondering why she is not answering the telephone when they call.

We are targeting Thailand and in particular Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket at the moment. We are encouraging as many men with girlfriends to register them with us. Once they are registered we can tell you if they are in a relationship with another member (wherever they live in the world).

The site is strictly confidential and your girlfriend will never find out you are checking up on her. If there is a possible match we will let you know through the site and you can take any action you think fit.

FidelityCheckOnline.com The worlds No 1 Cheating Website find out more on how we can help you find out if your Thai Girlfriend is Cheating on you click below;

Dating Sites and the Scammers who use them!

Warning, Dating Site scams and scammers are they lying to you and just after sex and money?

There are numerous dating site scams where unsuspecting, good, well intentioned people looking
for romance or a relationship are persuaded into parting with their money to scammers, the person
you have met on the dating site maybe;

• Needing money sent to them for flights and travel expenses to come and visit you.
• Needing money sent to them for hotel deposits for you to visit them.
• Needing money sent to them pay for essential items or medical bills.
• Needing money sent to them for translation services or.

Problems with cashing money orders in their own country, they send it to you with a request that you deposit it in a bank in your country and send them the money (usually by Western Union). Of course you later find out the money order is a forgery.

The scams are many and numerous, this list is not exhaustive and more will probably be thought up in the months and years to come.

But in this blog I just want to talk about married men and women …… particularly men, registering onto dating sites with false details, lying about who they are and their marital status, for sex.

More and more men in unsatisfying, unfulfilled relationships are populating dating sites with false profiles and lying about their relationship status, income, job and income to attract and to seduce unsuspecting women.

Furthermore, they are not creating just one profile at a time, they are using the same profile details on numerous sites to attract unsuspecting women and carrying on multiple relationships. All this while at the same time being in a long term relationship and living with somebody else.

The profiles are well thought out and made to look attractive to anybody browsing the site looking for perspective partners, the profiles give every appearance of the person being well balanced, grounded people, looking for all the right things in a partner and a long term relationship.

The truth is something completely different; the profile is full of lies and exaggeration, you think you are dating a single, intelligent, employed man, looking for a long term relationship. When in fact you are dating a dishonest, married, unemployed, unstable guy, with children you didn’t know about and is only looking for sex or your money.

Now, if you are only looking for a bit of fun and sex…. Well that’s ok, but if you are looking for something more don’t take a chance, don’t be lied to, you need to check them out.

FidelityCheckOnline.com can help protect you and give you peace of mind, if they are cheating on you with another member of our site and if both parties want, we will put you in contact.